Overview: Want to avoid your kids having an entitled mindset during the holidays? Here are 5 ways to INTENTIONALLY help them develop an ATTITUDE of GRATITUDE instead.
Have you ever wondered why our children can have a tendency to act bratty or selfish around the holidays? We’re quickly approaching that time of year when our kids can develop an entitlement mentality if we aren’t careful. The cookies and snacks are flowing, family gatherings are frequent, and they receive presents every time they turn around. The time between Thanksgiving and Christmas can become a season of great indulgence if we aren’t careful.
If we want our kids to be thankful for what they have, to be content, and to have a servant’s heart, it’s clear that we’re going to need to intentionally fight back against the cultural norms of the Thanksgiving and Christmas season. So, how’s a family to navigate the holidays and help their children develop an attitude of gratitude rather than thinking the world revolves around them?
Here are 5 ways to help our kids develop an attitude of gratitude around the holidays:
1 – Visit a nursing home
It’s good for our kids to be around people who have less than they do – or who have needs they are able to fill. The elderly people who live in nursing homes get very lonely. Their families often live a distance away and can’t visit as often as they would like. Most nursing home workers are happy to show you residents who would appreciate conversation or even just a smile. And the residents will be thrilled to have kids in their midst – even if they are on the quiet side!
2 – Write thank-you notes
When children do receive gifts, have them write thank-you notes to show their appreciation. This small gesture can go a long way toward helping them to realize how fortunate they are – and it’s appreciated by the giver as well.
3 – Recognize those who serve us
Have your kids make homemade gifts for the mailman, teachers, tutors, etc. You can also take a batch of cookies to your local firehouse or police station!
4 – What are you grateful for?
At the end of each year, it’s a great discipline for each family member to make a list of things they’re grateful for that year. Keep these lists in the same place so that you can review them from time to time. Sometimes, it’s easy to focus on what’s going wrong in our lives. This activity helps us to remember everything that’s going right.
5 – Look for ways to serve
Have your children set a goal to help someone out at least once a day without being asked. This is a wonderful discipline for people of all ages.
This year, as you navigate the holidays, make an intentional effort to help your kids develop a grateful heart. More than any other gift, helping them learn to be content and appreciative will be something that they will carry with them the rest of their lives.
Have you seen kids develop an entitlement mentality around the holidays? Have any other ideas for helping kids to be grateful and appreciative? Please leave a comment below.
For even more ideas, be sure to check out my original post over on True Aim Education which has SEVEN ways to help our kids develop an attitude of gratitude.