Overview: Do want your kids to do chores but aren’t sure what tasks your child should be able to handle? Check out this Age Appropriate Chore List for Children 9 years to 12 years.
The older children get, the more helpful they should be to the family. If your children have been doing chores around the house since they were little, you are well aware of how beneficial this has been for your family at this point. At these ages, your kids can handle even more responsibility.
Remember that it isn’t always easy to get our kids to begin doing chores. But the investment of time and effort that we put into the process will be worth it in the long run. And having our children learn life skills and help run the household isn’t just helpful for us. it’s also extremely important for them.
Some millennials are actually beginning to take “adulting” classes because they don’t know how to function well in the real world. You don’t want that to be necessary for your child! Get them involved in the daily household routine and help them to become responsible adults!
Below are some age-appropriate chores for children ages 9-12.
Age-appropriate chore list for children 9 years to 12 years:
In Their Room
- Change sheets and put dirty sheets in the hamper.
- Complete responsibility for their rooms on a daily basis (make the bed; and put clothes, toys, and projects away; and straighten dresser drawers and closet)
- Pack their own suitcase.
The Rest of the House
- Assist in household projects/repairs (painting, etc.)
- Clean the bathroom.
- Cut flowers and make a centerpiece.
- Do chores without a reminder.
- Do more difficult cleaning projects (scrubbing kitchen floor, windows)
- Do simple ironing.
- Empty garbage pails in the house.
- Feeding baby and younger siblings
- Fold blankets.
- Get own snacks
- Help others with their work when asked.
- Help prepare simple meals.
- Help rearrange the furniture. Help plan the layout.
- Help wash the car.
- Help with defrosting and cleaning the refrigerator.
- Increased responsibilities for younger siblings (dressing infants/toddlers, entertaining them for longer periods, helping with school work)
- Learn to wash dishes independently.
- Make more complex meals/snacks (pour and make tea, coffee, and instant drinks, beginning meal planning).
- More difficult cleaning projects (scrubbing floors, etc.)
- Operate the washer and dryer.
- Polish silverware, copper, or brass items.
- Put away groceries
- Put siblings to bed and dress them.
- Run own bathwater.
- Sew buttons and sew rips in seams.
- Simple first aid.
- Take care of younger siblings with a parent at home.
- Wait on guests.
- Wash and dry dishes or load/unload the dishwasher.
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In the Yard
- Build a campfire.
- Check and add oil to the car under supervision.
- Clean patio furniture.
- Clean pool and hot tub.
- Clean up animal “messes” in the yard and house.
- Cleaning yard
- Gather wood for the fireplace.
- Get items ready for BBQ (charcoal, hamburgers).
- Help build things.
- Help with car maintenance (help with minor repairs, learn tool usage, wash/wax).
- Learn the purpose and usage of tools (lawnmower, hand tools, etc.)
- Paint fence or shelves.
- Pick fruit off of trees.
- Rake leaves.
- Take pet(s) for walks.
- Unsupervised yard work (i.e., lawn mowing, edging, clean-up, gardening).
Away from Home
- Cross streets unassisted
- Do neighborhood chores.
- Handle sums of money up to $5.00.
- Responsible for a paper route.
- Summer jobs (lawn mowing, dog sitting, babysitting, odd jobs for vacationers).
- Answer telephone and take messages.
- Help write simple letters.
- Receive and answer their own mail.
- Write thank-you notes.
Also, be sure to check out our Age-Appropriate Chore Lists for other age groups as this list builds on those created for younger age groups.
I’ve also created a FREE, 15-page Chores Pack which is filled with chores list suggestions for the various age groups. It also contains several different chore chart templates to choose from. You can edit these chore charts online and then print them out. Or print blank copies first and then fill them in by hand. The choice is yours!
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Question: How about you? What chores have you been able to give your child? How has giving your child chores helped to build their character? Please leave a comment below.